This is probably the most important aspect of your profile. Most other visitors decide on wheather they are keen on finding out more about a fellow user based on first impressions. A member may be funny, intelligent but unfortunately most users base their decision on looks. If you don’t have a profile photo you will potentially loose out on possible dates before you even get started. Take a bit of time choosing a good photo and writing a well thought out profile and avoid being overlooked.
Use an up-to-date photo. There is little point misleading potential dates, although you may get more interest from other members this method will ultimately lead to problems and possibly anger. If you must use an older photo make it clear within your profile how old the image is. When selecting your photo choose one showing your complete face without hats, sunglasses or anything else covering your face. Avoid pulling silly faces, drunken photographs and group shots. Unless you are using an adult contacts website, try not to wear anything too risqué as this tends to give the wrong impression and will normally attract the wrong type of person. Photos you think are funny are generally a bad idea. Its unlikely members will find an image of you in a silly hat funny and will normally lead to them moving on to the next member. Who knows, you could have just missed out on the man/woman of your dreams for the sake of a poorly thought out decision.
Holiday photos are usually fine, be sure the picture clearly shows your face and if possible doesn’t include anyone else. Photos with ex boyfriends/girlfriends are a big no-no, New partners do not want to see this and will almost always be put off. It is estimated that over half of dating site members will choose not to contact a person if they choose a photo featuring an ex partner. Not having a photo at all will mean that about 80% of members will not contact you or not respond to your advances..
Another common mistake made by members more often made by men is showing off personal wealth and posesions like cars. Most people find this a turn off. If they don’t, ask your self do you really want to attract that type of person. Keep it simple, make sure your are smiling and look relaxed and the dates will come.